Faith

The healing process begins with the help of a loving God. For those who believe, it is possible. Your mind is powerful. So example if there are 2 people. One person thinks they can, the other person thinks they can’t. They are both right, so what you tell yourself is what your life will reflect. You can do anything you put your mind to with action. This can be challenging for people who feel disconnected from their faith or who lack belief in…..It is really about finding something outside of yourself that can inspire you to stay in a healthy mindset to live your best life. That’s why boundaries are important. Boundaries are a set of rules you place in your life that people need to follow to have a healthy relationship with you. In other words, they learn to respect you if they cross your boundaries. Most of the time after someone crosses them, you redirect and stick to your boundary they understand and respect you and you have healthy relationships. If they do not respect you and leave your life, don’t chase them. Don’t ever beg someone to be in your life, be a believer, not a beggar. Think more of yourself, and love yourself more than being desperate. If they should be in your life then your worlds will be aligned and they will be. That is faith.

Boundaries

Life Boundaries are important to openly communicate and share your values. To protect against having them compromised or violated. BOUNDARY with in-bounds meaning acceptable and out-of-bounds meaning unacceptable. Without values and boundaries, our identity becomes diffused and often controlled by others.

Your Bubble

Be selective about who you let in your bubble. You can not share the joy with everyone. Only share the joy with people that truly care about you. Do not let your right hand know what your left-hand does. Do not tell all your business. Stop talking so much and listen. People will tell you who they are if you just listen to them. Believe it when they tell you who they are. Then that little voice inside that says “they are weird,” or “I do not like this person at all” or “I want to run away from this person” listen to that voice of discernment. Do not share the joy or anything about you with people like that, break away as soon as you can and guard yourself. Energy, life is energy. You don’t need jealous vindictive people to know your plans and blessings then all their negative energy will try to overtake your positive energy. In life, if you have a handful, literally 5 or fewer people that are truly people you can count on. Then you are doing good. I have learned in life people will disappoint you. So instead of sitting around waiting on people, get up and go by yourself. Don’t let people hold you back. Just go, do whatever it is your heart desires and later on, sometimes you will find yourself right where you should be. In God’s perfect timing.

Just Trust The Process

Just be and trust the process. Life is busy and can be full of stress and task. Sometimes you just have to let it all go, take a moment to yourself, and just be. Be here, breathe, and be grateful right where you are. Be happy with who you are, what you have learned, and what you have accomplished in life. Sometimes just learning to be still, be in this moment looking at a sunset, or a lake, or a mountain, or sitting by a fire, or sipping a rich cup of coffee or wine. Reading a good book while curled up with a blanket, taking a walk, laughing with a friend, cherishing every moment every breath you have., because we are vapors. Our life will pass away quickly so don’t waste time on anyone or anything.